My current situation has similarities to the last time we broke up in 2001. We were living together, I left and was fed up. He was unemployed, gamed all the time, smoking pot, unmotivated, no physical contact. He cleaned up, got a job, and pursued me hard. Never knew if there was someone else back then but I wondered. I always told myself that if we separated again, it would be for good. I think that is why I am here.... I want to make sure that I do everything I can to save this marriage. I need to be able to tell my girls that I did everything I could if things don't work out.
What did you do that time to make him do all that?
