Still working on when to drop the boundary bomb, asking her one final time to completely cut off contact with OM. Don't want s7 anywhere around during that time.
I actually formally asked my wife this, as I remember it, about 5-6 times. Even did my exposure sequentially, instead of all-at-once, shock-and-awe (NOT advised!). Gave her MORE than enough chances to end it.
Do NOT keep having R discussions, don't misunderstand me. But this does not have to be just ONE conversation, either, considering how serious the subject is, in my opinion.
