Too often the kids tend to feel that only if they would have done x, or didn't do x, etc.
That's one thing I've done well, we'll be talking about things and I'll tell them -- that's something I didn't do well with your mom.
Such as advice. D10 was giving me advice one day -- I can't remember on what -- and I kind of dismissed it and then I told her I was sorry, I did that to her mom. I'm quick to give advice but when someone gives it to me I tend to discount it. I told her I've always been too smart for my own good and am trying to change.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
