If H had them wake up at his house on Thanksgiving, its only fair that you are able to do so on Xmas day, thats part of the fun anyway. I wouldnt worry too much about your kids not seeing their cousins, what makes you think that his family will not want to see you at all? You never know they may want to catch up with you too, you have been part of their family too remember. Just take time to think things through, dont let panic or demands spur you into action that you need more time to think about!
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