Hey I got in before the lock patrol! Holy Cow, when I came on to the BB you had 45 new posts! I read them all to catch up and my eyes are blurry as a result!
You know, when you mention H is having trouble sleeping and stuff, think back to how you felt when your emotions were in turmoil. He is probably facing the same thing - but since he is spending so much time with you - I would think it is because he is finally facing the fact that OW has to go...
Did you ever ask him about providing her with job placement services? And he should document everything so it doesn't come back to haunt him. Although since she is still working for him post-A, and it ended by his choice, she really can't come after him with harassment.
Anyway, thanks for the interpretation when you folks go off in other languages. I can guess pretty well, but unless it's in German or Norwegian - I may not get it right - and even in those languages it has been a while.
Regarding the note, I regularly reach in and find all kinds of things. And I wouldn't put it past OW for slipping it in there. Who's writing is it? If it's not H's then... But if you insist on asking him, I would do it lightly - jokingly. Don't let it eat you up though.
Again - if you don't know what to do - don't do anything.
My garden calls for a lot of weeding, so if you run out just let me know. My plot is 20 x 70 - feet! Now we did put a shed and firering on some of it, so maybe it is down to 20 x 55. It still needs a lot of work. And it is 75 degrees out today in October! I should be out there - but I have work to do at the computer. In fact, I need to get off the BB or I won't get it done!
Hey - for your new thread - Weeding out the bad from the good?!?!?
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"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
