Is my wife a WAW or is this a MLC? thx2brs

[Jack_Three_Beans]

when i get angry i use it to be constructive.

VERY good for you.

What are you constructing with it?

[are you kidding]

Resolve, persaverance, character, prayer, patience. It's creating a drive in me like none other to pray and be stronger, I'm not afraid of a lot of things anymore.

Again not angry at MLC, angry at her situation. To be angry with her is not loving.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Personally I don't care why you're angry, just that you use it wisely.

[are you kidding]

Oh I'm also reading A LOT and I'm being creative, had a blast with kids this week, we had a great couple days.

Not treating them to DisneyLand stuff either.

I used to be a doodler, got son and I sketch pads and we drew for hours vs watching TV.

D is seeing Dad can be fun.

I guess mom is picking them up tonite, told kids go ahead and give MLC a key to our "adventure spot," that's what we call the duplex, it's not a home yet, she's come over two days in a row while I was at work, but hung out in the driveway D said "Mom was in a bad mood." Then S said yeah Dad she even yells at me now.

"Faith, Hope, Love and patience, kids your mom is going through somethings."

"I'm doing my part giving her space, you kids do your part and be understanding and follow my lead, your mom is a great person and doesn't mean what she's saying. When your angry a part of your brain called the cerebellum does most of the talking, so it really isn't your mom, but that small part of her brain, it's not you or her."

I don't care if she comes in, I'm not vindictive besides there isn't much in there one and two she can see I can keep a house clean still:)

I'm also sending some shirts back with my son, something he can wear of mine, he used to sleep in my comfy tshirts, so I'm sending them back with him so he can sleep in my comfy tshirts, besides they were gifts from wife from yrs ago and a couple from our trip to Disney two wks before the bomb. Also told the kids I have some letters from yrs ago from their mom to me, asked S to put them back in treasure box for me.

I have the Octivus Poem on the fridge, so now S says in morning..."don't give up kid."

[are you kidding]

No the kids aren't go betweens, they've seen the letters before and i didn't buy many of my own tshirts.

I would buy wifes clothes and she and the kids would buy mine. It was a fun little thing we used to do.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Invictus means unconquered in Latin.

[are you kidding]

I've been reading other peoples threads, I haven't posted to them, i haven't learned enough to offer any advice, but there is some suggestions on the other threads that makes sense that i didn't see on mine, that now i can make use of.

[are you kidding]

Well my "gold digger" ring tone went off...

MLC called she's at my place can't find S's xbox..."putting the f'ing thing in her car tonite."

"Quit talking thru the kids on plans...I didn't tell her D had detention???I didn't know she had detention either.

WTF, she won't talk,I can't contact her, so I ask son to have his mom drop him off at practice tonite.

Listened to her for a minute, then when she dropped FBomb I just said hey I understand, goodbye.

[are you kidding]

as i'm saying goodbye she's says well ok see you at practice!!!

her voice was normal old voice til the fbomb drop.

[fisherman]

her voice was normal old voice til the fbomb drop.

fbomb drop??

AYK....you're awesome.

No matter what happens man, you're gonna be good.

Remember that....

you will be good brotha!