The next day we went to our friends wedding. I made sure I looked good. I had not been out in a very long time or seen some of our friends in a couple of years. I had the best compliment from a male friend and it felt so good. And I had the best time out.
I bet that did feel good! Keep doing things that make YOU feel good. When I am dressed my best, I feel great.
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I accidentally touched him when I was reaching in the cupboard. He flinched. That made me feel like crap. I need to learn to let these type of things go –like water off a ducks back.
YES, let them roll off you. His issues not yours.
I bet you are starving for touch. Touch is one of my love languages. I get my bucket filled with massage, pedicures, haircuts , etc. Helps a lot. And my friends and kids give great hugs.
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In general, I make a point to say good night to H and give him a kiss goodnight (nothing more passionate then what you give your grandma). If he goes to bed first, he never seeks me out.
How is that working for you?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712