We get married. My LSD--which ironically, was picking up GREATLY in the 6 months leading up to the affair--is resolved with IC. We TALK when we are afraid, scared, lonely. We are each other's best boosters... I support his skills, work, and talents. (sometimes I don't praise them enough due to my own low self-esteem. Hard to live with someone who does so many things so well) We TALK. We're not afraid anymore to ask for what we need for love and support.
How's that?
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
