Don't think a keylogger would be up my alley. Plus he has too many devices to check. 3 computers and ipodtouch.
A few weeks ago, he went out with the guys (night before friend's wedding), after dinner ended guys went out for drinks and he said he went to the beach and was not home till after midnight. Did not ask him what he did at the beach. I found this very odd. Red flag??
The next day we went to our friends wedding. I made sure I looked good. I had not been out in a very long time or seen some of our friends in a couple of years. I had the best compliment from a male friend and it felt so good. And I had the best time out. I have not heard a compliment from H this year. Closest thing would be something like “girls, did you say you liked mom's new hair”.
The night he moved to the spare room, I accidently touched him when I was reaching in the cupboard. He flinched. That made me feel like crap. I need to learn to let these type of things go –like water off a ducks back.
In general, I make a point to say good night to H and give him a kiss goodnight (nothing more passionate then what you give your grandma). If he goes to bed first, he never seeks me out.
