Guys, I need help and support. I just got kicked between the legs to the tune of 700+ a week I get to hand to my STBXW for the benefit of being married to her.
That's just the temporary order, she is asking for 1100+ a week in child and spousal support so for the temporary order I am getting off light!!!!
I don't know how to cope with this.. How do I look at this women who is going to ba taking so much from me without getting bitter..
There is no chance for reconciliation, for sure. 700 a week that I am going to be handing her is more than twice the gross pay she has ever made in her life!!!
I am so distraught right now I don't know what to do!!!!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
