I never thought I would be here

[2overcome]

You know PDT, with the wedding ring thing - I would have never thought of it that way. Thank you of pointing that out! (Just put ring back on, I have been carrying it in my pocket). The last thing I want to do with my boundaries is contradict myself and not have a leg to stand on.

Now as far as Wed. night I told her along the lines of - "I have been doing some thinking on what you said the other night about us being seperated and that we could do whatever we want. I have decided that I will respect my vows until this is legal and the papers are signed. I feel that you should give me that same respect. If you choose to go out and have sex and sleep around, then you can leave (or you know where the door is, can't remember how I ended it.) That's when she told me I was trying to be controlling, and I told her that this is the way I believe and these are lines that shouldn't be crossed.

Thinking more about the ring, I stopped wearing it Wed. until now. I am hoping that didn't screw myself over by doing that and sending the wrong message.