Improving communication is the 180 I was thinking.

Learning to Communicating effectly by setting healthy boundaries.

Having the courage to do WHAT IS RIGHT.

Take the focus of HIM and put it on YOU. The skills YOU need will be valuable no matter who she ends up with next.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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