Thanks for the advice GIMA. Much appreciated. I have been feeling pretty down the last few days and have been having trouble sleeping.
H actually had to go away last week for business (something he has not done in years) and I was so relaxed when he was away and we talked more than we normally would have if he was home. Three days before he left, he moved into the spare bedroom but when he came back, he was back in our bed. He actually asked what me and girls did during the day and said he missed us. H very rarely asks how my day went or what we do. I have stopped telling him about our day unless he inquires.