It's not your job to cover up for him and protect him from the consequences if anything "goes public," Rocked.
And, if it were me -- or anyone I was counseling -- THIS would be a non-starter:
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One of the reasons this is what we are considering doing is precisely because he refuses to have NO contact with OW and still feels he cannot commit to marriage.
Your response should be "I'm really genuinely sorry you feel that way. But I hear you. Let me know when you're serious about wanting to work on our marriage, and done hedging your bets, because I WON'T compete for you. I just hope it's not too late when you finally decide."
Your husband sounds very immature. It's time for him to pull up his big-boy pants, and decide what he wants to be when he grows up.
