For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[courts0818]

No, I don't want to become blatantly decepetive or deceitful...those are 2 behaviors I currently despise in my H. However, we are nowhere near rebuilding our R. And it wouldn't hurt for him to wonder what I'm up to, what I'm doing, who I'm talking to and so forth. But I suppose he can wonder all of these things through my 180s and GAL. It's up to me and how much I really go live my life.

And really, texting to thin air won't work in my situation. I coordinate a mentoring program and I have 125 high school kids that I lead. Our primary form of communication is texting so the vast majority of the time he just thinks I'm talking to a high school kid - bc I often am.