You kill me Mike :-)! I just listen mainly. Throw in a few ideas. Do I enjoy it? I am not sure you can call it enjoyment. In spite of all the stuff she pulled, i still have her best interest at heart. I guess like any other person / friend. that's the kind of guy I am. Nobody is perfect. I remember a while back you guys used to tell me to calm down, be positive, forgive, loose the anger, detach etc.etc. Well...I am there....it took a while but I can honestly say I have arrived. So...even though I tell her that perhaps she should be taking her good news elsewhere, something inside feels good about getting the first call. Tough to explain not sure I understand it myself...I am happy for her. Does that mean we are not getting divorced? No...it means that I took the high road and was true to who i really am. She is the one who strayed and she has to live with it. I have nothing (ok very little) to be ashamed of or unhappy about including the way I have acted towards her, her family, our friends etc. All above and beyond reproach....I feel good about that. Ok so all that and $1.50 may get me a small regular coffee!
