Just so you know what ours is based on: our county guidelines. He gets them every other weekend and every Tuesday night from 5-9. He is supposed to have them back by 6 on Sundays. So sadly the boys only see him 4 days a month. They are totally fine with it and really don't want to see him then. I can't believe he doesn't sense that!!
The girls go off to his house every other weekend. Again nothing that they want to do. I try to make it like it will be fun to see Daddy, umm I think they have built in BS meters and just look at me as if I am crazy.
I think they will be as relieved as I will be when I don't have to see him on any sort of regular basis.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory