Thanks for stopping by guys. I indeed tell her that I thought it best that she go. I cannot live like this any longer. She is adamant that she does not want an apartment. She wants a house or condo. Although I can see how this makes sense to her I do feel that is unreasonable.
It was clear she feels I am trying to control her. I said we made these decisions together so I don't feel is fair for me to accept full, sole responsibility for them. She was completely closed to my words so I gave up.
I actually want her to be gone now. This is new for me.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.