OK I know that this is far fetched but it happened to me... is it possible that she is somehow trying to upset what is looking very much like him prefering to be with you than with her?????
One day h was sick and didn't go to work. She however worked at another site and didn't know about this. By the middle of the night his pager went off and I checked it. It was a message from her, all love and giggles thanking him for such a wild time and describing how she enjoyed him doing this and that to her. SHe new I checked his messages on the pager and was really trying to work on my side since she wasn't getting much luck on his. Only problem is that wsa her timing, he had been in bed with fever.. not out having a wild time with her!!!! I know that she did many more things like that for a while but I was already forewarned. Other times she tried to mess up with him calling him up complaining that I had been harrassing her on the phone when I had done no such thing. Again poor timing got her caught when she called complaining I had just called her home when me and hubby were out watching a soccer game!
BY the way also got a slipped not on his jacket once. "thank you so much for the flowers. They are beautiful" H's cousin had been with him all week working and said he had not send her or anyone else any flowers.
OK, so maybe something like that is happening. Or not, but in both cases the best to do right now is absolutely nothing.
JUst get that paper bag out again!!!! Really twin now is the time to start counting backwards... I'd suggest starting at 1.000....
Thinking of you Big , big hug nightshade
"Each and every one of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought and the gift of understanding. "
