VH....agree. Ugh. I am rereading when I first discovered STBXW's EA which probably in retrospect was a PA. Ugh. I wish this was over.

If there is ANY anger..now..it's that I was 'seeing babysteps' and 'DB'ing' when I was being cheated on.

Jeff...you SO counseled me to 'throw down the sword'. The Emperor's New Clothes. Many days, in spite of how horrible this is, I wish I had filed earlier.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;