Well, I really need to have the same amount of child support/alimony I have now, at least on a temp. basis until I could hopefully in the future get a full-time job at some point.
I haven't decided about the child support stuff. I'm thinking we could leave it as is now, but I would want Tuesday nights b/c of the activities my kids like to do. Or revert back to the Wed. nights and every other weekend we did for a few months until the latest change. If we do the Wed. night, the kids would miss out on our Wed. activities though. If X has Mondays as he does now, it's likely we'll continue to have issues with me getting school info as it has been the past 2 months.
I would like to have something firm, because X has changes the visitation every few months which I don't think is good for the kids.
I'm trying to write down this next couple days my defense/offense I would like the L to present. I know what issues X will bring up (lie about) and will tell her those. My issues with him are his anger issues, lack of sharing the kids' school info: the class newsletters and project info that D9 gets on Mondays. He didn't give me any of the info again this week. Maybe that he makes decisions based on punishment/control even if it will affect the kids. Any other ideas?
I'm going to type up his visitation over the past 18 months also, from nearly any to now. He says its b/c I was homeschooling he didn't ask for them more, but actually when you're hsing your schedule is more flexible, and doesn't make sense.
