R2C, to be honest, you can tell me what I need to do, and I know that. But sometimes I really can't put into words what to say! Its kinda sad...I appreciate you giving me examples, it really helps. When my mind is a blurr and given that I am not doing very well right now at DB'ing, sometimes it just helps to have word for word help. So thank you. If you read the incident this morning, I think I did that!

I have only read DB, not DR. A lot of people recommend DR, so I'm off on a road trip this afternoon to get the book. I need to read it.

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14