I just saw a few posts from some of them. And puppy was very gracious to give me advice about a year ago - he told me all about OW and I was too naive to believe my H could do such a thing.

But, I'm paging them too - STAT! I saw that puppy posted this: "I know all about you and _______ , and it needs to stop immediately. This is incredibly disrespectful to me and to our marriage."

Is this the approach to take, then "create" my bf and go dark except for matters relating to DD?

This is the style, I'm ready to take. I think...It's been long enough.

Last edited by courts0818; 11/13/09 05:11 PM.
Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010