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Puppy, I would be afraid to say about going over them together, we haven't been together at all since the separation last year. Just when he came over to help with pool cover. Should I say about sitting down and going over this?


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Win - Win - Win

Win for your husband, he gets to lead, he gets to feel appreciated,

Win for your kids, they get the coverage they need without changing doctors

Win for you, you get the information you need about the coverage, you get to work together, you get to partner up on getting things done


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Thanks Coach for everything. Got it. Where is your original post? Would like to read your thread......thanks again for everything!


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Originally Posted By: Coach
Win - Win - Win

Win for your husband, he gets to lead, he gets to feel appreciated,

Win for your kids, they get the coverage they need without changing doctors

Win for you, you get the information you need about the coverage, you get to work together, you get to partner up on getting things done


see, I TOLD you he'd know . . . smirk

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Originally Posted By: Goodfight
Puppy, I would be afraid to say about going over them together, we haven't been together at all since the separation last year.


Well, this is important. Just as we've seen with the town hall meetings in the health care debate, this is an INTENSELY personal -- and important -- issue to people.

Just phrase it how Coach suggested, I think that would be fine.

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You were right Puppy. He knew. Thanks to the both of you. Where is your original post, would also love to read your thread too. You have been such a great help to me.


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Originally Posted By: Goodfight
You were right Puppy. He knew. Thanks to the both of you. Where is your original post, would also love to read your thread too. You have been such a great help to me.


This is my old stuff, when I was "Chocolateeyes," and my wife was having her affair:

Choc's old threads

This is my latest, over on the Infidelity board:

Puppy's Latest

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Thanks Puppy. Will read. I think I messed up last night. H called on Sat. night late around 11:00 and it was a nice conversation, mostly joking around. H asked if I would make my mac and cheese for the next day and I told him I would. And he could pick it up when he was going to drop our D13 off later that night. Told him to call me 1 1/2 hrs. before he was going to drop her off so this way it would be warm for him to take home.

Well, it didn't turn out that way our D13 called and said they were on there way but I still needed 1/2 an hour for it to be done. H said to freeze it and I said no just tell daddy that we will drop it off to him when it is done. It won't taste the same if I freeze it. So anyway it gets done and D13 called and asked if I should come by myself or both me and her, would it matter. H said he didn't care. So we go and she waits in the car because I was just going to drop it off well more than that happened. I couldn't help it, it's been a little over a year for me and for him too.

Did I mess the Dbusting up? There was no talk of relationship or anything. Although I was dying to hear and to say "I love you".


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Puppy, are you totally reconciled now? How are things going?


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Originally Posted By: Goodfight
Thanks Puppy. Will read. I think I messed up last night. H called on Sat. night late around 11:00 and it was a nice conversation, mostly joking around. H asked if I would make my mac and cheese for the next day and I told him I would. And he could pick it up when he was going to drop our D13 off later that night. Told him to call me 1 1/2 hrs. before he was going to drop her off so this way it would be warm for him to take home.

Well, it didn't turn out that way our D13 called and said they were on there way but I still needed 1/2 an hour for it to be done. H said to freeze it and I said no just tell daddy that we will drop it off to him when it is done. It won't taste the same if I freeze it. So anyway it gets done and D13 called and asked if I should come by myself or both me and her, would it matter. H said he didn't care. So we go and she waits in the car because I was just going to drop it off well more than that happened. I couldn't help it, it's been a little over a year for me and for him too.

Did I mess the Dbusting up? There was no talk of relationship or anything. Although I was dying to hear and to say "I love you".


You lost me. Are you saying you had sex?

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