Kevin, I know many things have been said in your sitch (all 164 pages and counting), some pretty hard knocks, which are sometimes justified.

Some would call it obstinacy, some would find it admirable, but call it what you may, you have always tried to maintain your stance that saving the M was the best, perhaps the only option.

I can only feel for you to be at this stage now. You must be drained to be posting like this at all. I'm sorry things are what they are now. If you do decide to go ahead and file, it's not a failure or a weakness. As others have said, it's about accepting your limits, and we're all only too human. Just thought I would say that.


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.