Puppy, hope you don't lose patience with me. I am making progress even if it is a little at a time. This is hard for me. I was very very dependent on him. I am trying my absolute best. I promise you that. I'm thankful for my support system you all mean alot to me. I take your advice over some of my good friends. Puppy, you are a very intelligent, PATIENT human being. You may say you don't have patience, but you do, thankfully it works in my favor. Thanks again.
Britt, it's not a question of "losing patience." It's simply a matter of TIME, as the Newcomers forum is FILLED with hurting people who need help and advice, and there's simply not enough time to get to all of them, and do a halfway decent job. I also try to help on the Infidelity forum. As it is, I probably spread myself too thin, and don't spend enough time reading everyone's backstory. I try to choose 10-15 people or so to follow, and try to help, and when someone doesn't begin to apply the advice, not just from myself but from ALL of the others on their thread, then I simply have to move on and try to help someone else.
Not sure if you're familiar with the medical term "triage," but that's really what it is.
I will continue to check in on you as I can, and pray for you and EVERYONE on here every day.
