So, I cleared my head, slept on it and took actionthis morning. I emailed his homeroom teacher without much detail that S11 is upset abou this grades, possibly getting excluded from school for not having a physical, his living conditions, and speaking of running away and to contact me immediately should he not arrive at school and a notice of absense call be made from XW. I also said I will arrange for C outside of school, but in the mean time since he was in agreeance last night, he should speak wtih someone as soon as possible.
The teacher replied almost instantly. Thanking me for contacting her as she was getting concerned too. Apparently XW has in fact stuck her nose inbetween me and the school, and that is a straight up violation of court order without question. She said she will contact the couselor (actually cc'd him in her reply). This was before I left for work late so I could be in the area around the time school starts in case he came up 'missing'.
When I got to work, I checked my e-mail, S11 had gone straight to the counselors office first thing in the morning, I think voluntarily from the sound of it. He also is in fact going to be excluded from school, nice, how friggen lazy can you be? He' been to the "doctor" 2 times in the last 4 weeks for a persistant cough he can't shake, and yet, this couldn't get done?? wtf?
I just hope he doesn't get like me and clam up. I didn't push him to go, but told him of how I am seeing a C now, but it's too late for me to fix my issues with what happened in my childhood, but he can make a difference for himself. I guess he listened I love my mini-me. {typed with watering eyes}
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11