Sadgirl, you just have such spunk, and attitude and independency in you its ridiculous. You give me such a spurt of energy everytime you comment. You've got it going on thats for sure!
You have it too, Britt. I saw you post something on another thread and I was very proud of you. You know what to do, you just can't seem to let yourself do it yet.
You're expecting things to happen on your timeline, and as you should know by now, it doesn't work like that. You can't control how quicky he works through his issues. He may never work through them. You have to get to the point where you say to yourself...my husband left. He didn't leave me, he left a situation. I am a good person, and I will be an even better person after this journey. Once you realize that it is HE that must earn YOU back, you'll truly start applying the DB principles. Right now, you're chasing your tail trying to get HIM back.
You are worth more than pining over a man who ran out on you and 2 babies!!
