Thanks Puppy and Coach. I think Coach hit the nail on the head on how to approach this. My concerns are the Drs., co-pays, and prescriptions that all of us are on.

Puppy you are right about being insulting to my H. Sorry about that one, we are more important I guess I worded it wrong when I wrote in here.

Coach, I'm confused as far as the win-win-win, thing.......can you explain better. Is it because he actually called and included me in something (communication)? Instead of just doing what he wanted and made a decision for the whole family.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08