Still in the tunnel with hubby

[sandycay]

Sounds sooo familiar. My only advice would be the back way off your H right now. My H bolted on Monday with no notice. We ML that morning... but it was just Sex for him.

I think we would never have a problem in that area. We are quite attracted to each other that way. But it's not enough to sustain our M.

He has already seen a lawyer and everything. Anyway, your situation sounds very familiar and you are hyper focusing on your H... which I totally get. That makes them move further away. I am not saying however that if I had moved even further away that my marriage would have been saved. It's not savable at this point and a lot of that has to do with his verbal abuse of the children.... he takes out all of his frustrations on them, never on me.