There is nothing wrong with you. You have been a wonderful loving wife that wants nothing more than her husband to love her back and to protect her and cherish her. Don't fall for that nonsense that there must be something wrong for wanting that.
We can talk all day and night about who has what issues.. It isn't going to do a bit of good until you smoke out the OW.
Men do NOT do what your man is doing UNLESS there is another woman in the picture somewhere, someplace.... No man moves to live with his sister just because his wife wants to be with him when he goes to banquets and he wants space.
As long as he knows you aren't going anywhere and he has you whenever he wants you, then this will not change much and you will continue to try and try and try to little or no results. You will be calling it a baby step when he smiles at you, while all the while he will still say he doesn't know what he wants. You have taken the challenge out of the relationship. Men respond much better to challenge and get bored with the same old same old. Your man is bored and looking for a challenge. I think you should give him exactly what he is looking for...
By the way.. He was snooping in your emails just to make sure you didn't have something else going on with another man.. (this is good) He noticed the attention you got from the other men. Good...
Find the thread from RedSoxFan.... He is the classic example of what YOUR husband is doing. He did the same types of things to his wife..... Moved out.. blah, blah, blah..
He is awake NOW.. Go back and read his behavior and what woke him up...
