Excellent job Gina... Others are watching and observing you on this thread. Asking themselves if this would work for them.
Let him show you why you should give this another shot. He needs to think you are doing some serious thinking here. (as you should be doing) Now is the time to consider what some of your ground rules will be IF you decide to proceed forward. He needs to tell you that he will play by your ground rules because he WANTS to. Don't give up your new found strength easily.
Excellent job though. Remember that you still need to proceed with caution and not let him think you want to rush back into things....