Hypothetically speaking,

If I were to decide to file for D on my W, would it be better for me to let her know in advance and give her the option to sign the waiver of service, or just not say anything and have her served?

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...