Ah K, I'm sorry he feels he can do no right. Men dont take it well when we point out what they are not doing, they feel like they are failing if we 'critiscise', however fairly you do it. I think someone said to go reread some of the books we read in the early days and it does seem to be like DBing101 again!!
What was someone here saying, reward the good stuff (I loved it when you did X, or, I liked you calling yesterday etc etc) but ignore the bad stuff?? Easier said than done I guess. Are you seeing him tonight though??