OK let's get that paper bag... breathe in.... out slowly ...

I know that instinct plays a big part in our lives. And I learned to trust mine... to an extent. But calm down for now dear one.

Being sick does not predispose one for cuddling.. maybe that's all there is.

YOU're still seeing actions that show that he wants to spend time with you and that he's being thoughtful enough to inform you of what he's doing. Hang on to those for now. Even if he's going through a confusing stage right now, he's not pulling away from you.
Take the good things and discard the rest for now. It takes patience twin of mine... lots of patience and feeling anxious works against you.
Don't forget that until things are really all worked out there are many ups and downs... forwards steps and backward steps...This might be one of those minor glitches. Although honestly I think that it's probably nothing special.

Now put on a big smile and be ready for what life throws at you today. You can do it!
Hugsies
nigthshade

"Each and every one of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought and the gift of understanding. "