Last night I went to bed rather early. WAW came home late from work and got in bed. I was half asleep, but realized she was crying. She was upset about impending death of her grandmother and how her family is handling end of life car, funeral arrangements, etc. There is very little money in the family, and if were not our current situation, I would offer up money to give the woman a respectful burial etc. I'm not sure WAW gets the point that we can't help out financially due to WAW needs.
I consoled WAW and she wound up lying on my chest and talking. That turned to spooning - which in "normal" times often leads to sex. Well....last night it almost did as well. We came very close, but WAW said something like "we shouldn't do this right now" and something about me being "black and white". She says that a lot lately. Likely because she is living in gray.
Anyway, I also decided it was not the right thing at the right time and turned away from WAW and went to sleep. This morning WAW was still very upset about her grandmother, but neither of us mentioned the physical stuff from last night.
Once again, though, it appears that the woman who said she needs to move out now because she doesn't feel safe, is acting differently than what she says.
