Quick update. We have a charity social function coming up. Apparently, one of the couples who will be stuck to our sides tonight just happens to include the W who is recently re-M'd and told my W some time ago she and her H#1 had a "great D" - they opened a bottle of wine and divided up their property (which included one S) as if it were a party. Uh, ok.
Now, I am comfortable being around W's friend. She's just not on my Christmas card list. And this lady's H is pleasant.
I know others who will be there, so I will have outlets to talk to.
W has been nothing short of extremely nice, pleasant and chatty. Some of the best moods I have seen her in since everything with the D came to light.
So, I'm just going to have a good time at the social function and be me. And, that's good enough.