I've never commented on your sitch before. I am only starting this journey (5 weeks) but I do understand how hard it is to try to detach and it feels like W gives you hope, only to dash it again.
I started detaching from Monday again, W has not phoned me for long time, I was at friends last night, she phoned me to let my S speak to me(he did not want to so he did not ask her to phone me), then she phoned me today to see what she must get for dinner. Although these are small things they start to give me hope, but then I remember that she told me on Monday she has made her decision and our paths will part.
Just wishing you strength, I know I need as much as I can get!
M: 30 W: 32 Married: 9 years s: 2.8 Bomb dropped: 7-10-09 same house, bed, no physical contact My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1871805&page=1