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I got emotional and into R talks - not a good idea.


Yep.

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I thought things were going well.


Because you had an expectation. And that's the danger in having them. It sets you up for a fall.

Hope, you have got to work on detaching and focusing on you and your child. You simply cannot worry about what your H may or may not do.

You are allowing your H to dictate what you do, think and feel. Until you unhitch your happiness from him, you will continue to ride the roller coaster HE's driving.

It's your choice, but you can choose to continue on the roller coaster or you can step off and wave at H as he goes by for another lap. What YOU decide to do is within YOUR control.

What are you afraid of?

Last edited by givingitmyall; 11/13/09 01:24 PM.

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