Take it for what it's worth...our W's are simply justifying their emotions. Yes, we contributed to the demise of our marriages...but so did our spouses. Let them think and feel what they want...don't take it personally. I'm learning to laugh it all off. We are all going to be just fine...regardless of our situation.
Yep. They do whatever they need to do to justify their actions.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.