CIPA, you fought your heart out to preserve your marriage and your family...she didn't want it. Now, fight your heart out to come out of this thing as well as you possibly can for your boys and yourself. As you told me..."this is the war that nobody wins".
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.