hi avermont you sound like me, as well my husband and i both have careers that take us all over the country that is a big part of our problem......we were hardly ever together, even when our son was born i am actually just starting the process and after my horrible day yesterday, i realize that asking him for another chance (long distance of course) will not work i just need to be less available to him and to become my old self...the one he fell in love with, which, btw, is the one i loved being hope you have a great day