I want to tell her that I'm not giving up on her, us or our family and then walk away.
A family friend said she is a needy person, and maybe she needs to hear from me that I won't just roll over and accept it and that she wants to feel wanted. Even though I have told her what I want ( I said I want it to work, but I don't want to go back to the same old way), she may need to hear it stronger than that.
She told my parents that she wants me to open up to her. I thought I was, but maybe I wasn't clear enough. I want to make a very short and powerful statement about what I want.
Maybe I'm clutching at straws, I don't know. But the family friend said that she seemed pretty adamant, so if I said it, it couldn't do Anh more damage than what is already done.
Very confused at the moment. She wants me to be open, but I don't know if she will listen.