Not sure what to do

[Inaspin]

Hi stu

I am in a similar boat to you, and also had a terrible MC session last week, and blew my lid after it, so I kinda know how you feel.

I would not recommend giving the article or telling her again. I have been trying to detach for 6 weeks, but have backslid every week, and I can see now that all I have done is fuel the fire and may have blown my chances.

It will only validate her decision and push her further away from you. I know this is easier said than done, but try and focus on the fact that it will only make it worse, not matter how much you want it to help.

I know how you feel, this is a living hell, but you have got to try and focus on dealing with the reality of the now & making peace with it. If you get it right, tell me how to do it please.

Try and stay strong.