Not sure what to do

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Stu,

I was thinking about sending her the link to Michelle's article "Walk Away Wife" http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_walkaway_wife.htmShould I ?

I vote no. I don't know your whole sitch but I believe that if you give her that, you're giving her the entire DB/DR manual. Why would you reveal your strategic plans to your "adversary" and tip them off?

I found the book The Walk Out Woman by Steve Stephens and Alice Grey to be very good. It is informative, it is written for the WAW, but suggested for LBSs, too. I gained much insight and empathy for my STBXW from it. It's a tad on the religious side, but just a tad if that's not your thing and it is loaded with statistics of how it does not work or improve things, you will still have your problems after you've left and perhaps even more, etc. And a good dose of "what if you didn't walk? What if you came back, what if you could make it better, etc.
Unfortunately my wife saw it and was offended by its very title. Tried to convince her how empathetic and hopeful it was, ah, but that title. You see my wife insisted more than once "I did not leave.", I did not walk out."