Not sure what to do

[bluerain]

I dont think that you should send her the link. It will just be seen as pursuing, or you trying to make her feel guilty, or wrong.

I also dont think that you should tell her that you dont want to give up. Im sure that she already knows. Or if you do tell her, only tell her once, and expect her to balk at it. But dont engage in the arguement, and dont bring it up again. You can show her that you dont want to give up by not jumping on the D bandwagon with her. Stall. You dont make any effort in the process at all. NONE. If she wants something to happen, she needs to be the one to do it, every last little tiny bit of it.