So read your sitch tonight. You have come a far ways! And in such a short amount of time. Very impressed. Your advice to me has been so well taken on my part, I really appreciate it. I am definitely not in the position to be giving advice, but just wanted to let you know my sitch doesn't have any infidelity but other than that i feel very connected with you. I feel we are very much alike. I have been told by many people on here that I have anxiety issues. I will be going to a doctor next week to get further professional advice about it, but I agree with it. Any certain techniques you have found help with it? I also obsess. I obsess till I drive myself crazy. Sometimes I will do it every minute of everyday, and then the next day not at all, then back again the next day. This is where I feel anxiety plays a part.

I'm glad you have taken the route you are on now. You sound like you are in a much better place than even a week ago. So good for you. I will continue to read your thread and offer my two cents when i feel I have something to give but like I said, not quite there yet. So I applaud you for being able to chime in on my sitch, it speaks volumes for you and where you are today.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14