I enjoyed dating when I was separated while the D was pending. And I had no guilt that I was still legally married in the view of the state and courts. In my mind, I was already divorced. That is why I had no emotions when signing and getting word that my D was official in the eyes of the court.
I would suspect that Bobbi Jo's church has a similar view in that marriage is in the heart and not a piece of paper.
my thought process was the same as Kerry's..
I'm sure that the church has a different view..
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OK just this one more, promise! only 20 seconds...
Hhhmmm think I would like to play that with the STBXH just once for release. Then we could move on.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Yeah I need to learn the rules of IM etiguette. A guy has been chatting this evening and he is just too much of a downer for my upbeat personality. I could always make up a reason to jump off IM, but if I still want to browse on Match it shows I am still online! How do I work around that?? Next time I just won't respond to him I guess?
Thanks Jeff! You are super inteligant intelligent!
OK too much computer and not enough dinner. Conferences didn't get over until almost nine. Need food!!
Nathan's was awesome! His teacher referred him to the TAG teacher. She worked with him one day for a little while. Then told the teacher she wants to test him for placement in the program! He gets IQ tested sometime in the next 2 weeks...
Sydney's teacher was so on-target. Called Sydney "sassy" and "smart enough to be dangerous"...She gets that from me!
The funniest part of the evening is when Nathan's teacher mentioned how well he is doing socially. If you remember, he got in trouble for play-fighting a lot last year and being wiggly.
Anyway she remarked on his improvement. Dan says,
"Yeah I have to say, we put him in karate last year and I think that made a huge difference in his self-control and his behavior"
Hmmmm.....as I recall ONE of us was pro-karate and the other complained about it most of the time...