((( Hi Opt))). Well brace yourself. If my sitch last week with sick kids is any indication, you will also get sick. I'll cross my fingers that you don't but...
Regarding C - I went to one 3 times after H left. Third visit was only 5 weeks after he moved out and she was all over me to take D ed classes, to start own bank accounts, etc, etc. I told her that I had just read DB and was going to read DR and that I was going to give the sitch the time it needed and give my H the space he needed to think.
My H has refused to go all along so even if he went he probably wouldn't tell me. But at this point, I think the DB and this BB has helped me incredibly and my H too - even if he isn't aware of it. I doubt we will ever go to C and I think that he is thisclose to moving home.
Well, I hope you get through the caretaking without needing any yourself. Take care.
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
