Just my opinion. But isn't it a little early to be discussing Xmas? Its over 7 weeks away! I think you need to discuss these things as they come. Who knows what will happen in the next 7 weeks?!! I've seen a few people discussing Xmas already and I just don't get it. In a way it seems like an "off-topic" "r" talk. If that makes sense at all. Like I said who is to say what could happen by then...take it day by day. Just my opinion but I would wait to see how the arrangement goes for Thanksgiving before you make full plans ahead. Just me.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14